Sexual Assault Policy
Adapted from the pReNC 5.3 Sexual Assault Policy
This sexual assault policy should be seen as a work in progress, and
our intention is to help lay the groundwork for continuing resistance
to rape culture in our community, both during the GrassRoutes Caravan
and beyond. We want this policy to be useful and empowering for everyone
it affects, and encourage feedback and input to that end. We also want
to see greater participation in the work itself, in hopes that the process
of participation will be one of learning and developing skills that leave
all involved better equipped to deal with sexual assault and other forms
of violence and coercion as they continue to manifest themselves.
1. Terms
The definitions below are meant to provide a useful framework for understanding
and dealing with sexual assault. However, we recognize the limitations
inherent in trying to define complicated experiences.
Consent: Consent is actively and voluntarily expressed agreement.
Doing personal work to consistently seek consent and respect the times
when it is not given helps to combat rape culture. Informed consent, sexual
and otherwise, is necessary in the building of strong, healthy anti-authoritarian
communities. The following do not qualify as consent: silence, passivity,
and coerced acquiescence. Body movements, non-verbal responses such as
moans, or the appearance of physical arousal do not necessarily constitute
consent. Further, if someone is intoxicated, they may not be in a position
to give you consent. Consent is required each and every time there is
sexual activity, regardless of the parties’ relationship, prior
sexual history, or current activity.
Sexual Assault: Sexual assault is any non-consensual sexual
interaction. Sexual assault happens, and it happens in activist and radical
communities as much as anywhere else. Sexual assault can be perpetrated
by a complete stranger, but is often perpetrated by someone known and
trusted by the survivor and community. Sexual assault is a tool of domination,
of taking power, and an attempt to rob someone of their self respect,
self worth, and autonomy. Sexual assault is rooted in broader systems
of oppression- such as patriarchy, white supremacy, capitalism, homophobia,
and colonialism- and is not separable from them in how and why it is perpetrated,
experienced, and dealt with.
Rape Culture: Rape culture is the culture in which sexual assault
and other forms of sexual violence are condoned, excused, and even encouraged.
Rape culture is part of a broader culture of violence, wherein people
are socialized to inhabit different positions in hierarchical relationships,
to commodify their fellow human beings, and to relate to each other through
violence and coercion.
2. Why a sexual assault policy?
We made the decision to enact a sexual assault policy for the GrassRoutes
Caravan for several reasons:
1. We want to take part in setting an active precedent of combating
rape culture with all of our organizing, recognizing that one of the
most frequently-voiced concerns some folks have in anticipation of mass
mobilizations like the GrassRoutes Caravan or RNC is the extent to which
they provide an arena in which sexual assault and other coercive behaviors
go unchecked.
2 . We want the GrassRoutes Caravan to be a space where constructive,
consensus processes unfold, and we do not believe this is possible in
an environment where coercive behaviors are not challenged and survivors
are not supported.
3. We believe that failure to confront and combat sexual assault in
our communities makes us complicit in rape culture.
In establishing a specific sexual assault policy, we do not mean to suggest
that sexual assault trumps other forms of violence, nor that other acts
of oppression aren’t equally important to deal with in the building
of healthier radical communities. In fact, we see this sexual assault
policy as a small part of building a larger anti-oppression framework,
and look forward to engaging around other issues through policy and action,
as well.
It is important to note that we do not have the capacity to create spaces
free of perpetrators, but only to create spaces free of known perpetrators.
Neither of these is our goal during the GrassRoutes Caravan. Exiling only
those who choose to out themselves, or who are compelled to do so by an
accountability process, without creating spaces and processes for accountability,
merely discourages honesty. Simultaneously, we have to acknowledge that
those perpetrators turned out from our communities will only find new
ones, and while it is not our primary responsibility to create spaces
for perpetrators, it would be irresponsible and reprehensible of us to
force them into other communities instead of doing the hard work of dealing
with them ourselves. Knowing this, we feel that focusing on accountability
instead of punishment better serves our goal of understanding, addressing,
and stopping sexual assault in our communities.
It would be dishonest to suggest that anyone can provide an entirely
“safe” space for radical organizing. This is true because
we cannot identify and exclude all perpetrators but, more to the point,
because the presence of perpetrators isn’t the only, or even the
primary, thing that makes a space “unsafe.” However, we are
committed to always seeking and creating safer spaces in which to organize.
3. Prevention Plan
All participants in the GrassRoutes Caravan are being asked the following
questions:
1. Have you ever committed sexual assault?
2. If yes to #1: Are you, or have you ever been, part of an accountability
process in relation to that/those assault/s? If no, why not?
3. If yes to #2: Who can we talk to about your accountability process?
Four core members of the Neverwood Collective are receiving the answers
to these questions and evaluating them using these guidelines for non-attendance:
1. If attendance is not in keeping with the will of the survivor,
or the accountability process
2. If a perpetrator is currently out of compliance with an accountability
process
3. If a perpetrator has made no attempt to be accountable, or has rejected
a survivor’s request for an accountability process
4. If a person refuses to engage with our process
5. If a person is dismissive of the need for such a process
First, they will identify those individuals who we do not feel able to
hold accountable while still maintaining a safer space for survivors.
These individuals will not be allowed to attend the GrassRoutes Caravan.
Second, they will follow up with perpetrators who may be allowed to attend
to determine if attendance fits with our policy. Third, they will compile
a list of self-identified perpetrators in attendance and an explanation
of the reasons they’re being allowed to attend, to be available
upon request to all GrassRoutes Caravan participants.
In having a sexual assault policy for this event, we hope to normalize
talking about and dealing with sexual assault within radical communities
and spaces. We believe that this helps to combat rape culture and replace
it with a culture of transparency, accountability, and non-coercive ways
of relating with eachother.
4. Response Plan
Sexual assault will not be tolerated during the GrassRoutes Caravan, and
our policy in dealing with sexual assault will be one of deference to
the requests, needs, and desires of the survivor. Only the requests of
the survivor or someone empowered to act on their behalf will be considered.
We want to encourage survivors to seek out whatever support they need,
and acknowledge how enormously difficult- even impossible- this can be.
We recognize this policy as one small step in creating spaces and infrastructure
that make that possible.
During the GrassRoutes Caravan, we will have a mediation team ready to
deal with any instances of sexual assault, as well as other situations
that arise and require mediation. The team of two to four individuals
may consist of Neverwood Collective members as well as trusted participants
from out of town. The team will be on call from Sunday, August 17th through
Saturday, August 30th, and will be present throughout the GrassRoutes
Caravan. Direct contact information for the mediation team will be made
available to GrassRoutes Caravan participants upon arrival/check-in. The
mediation team’s primary purpose is to support and assist survivors
of sexual assault during the GrassRoutes Caravan, and will do so only
according to the wishes of the survivor. The mediation team will attempt,
as much as possible, to provide resources for people to continue the process
of healing, but will not have the capacity to provide follow-up services
and accountability beyond the confines of the ride.
We are in the final stages of assembling the mediation team, and between
now and the GrassRoutes Caravan, those on the team and those who drafted
this policy will meet to further develop and flesh out this response plan.
If you want to learn more and/or have resources available about dealing
with sexual assault, let us know, as we would like to facilitate a radical
exchange of information on the topic. Lastly, if you have specific questions
about aspects of this policy, how it’s being implemented, or the
process that led us to it, don’t hesitate to ask.
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